You Said What, God? A Lifestyle of LISTENING
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In the basement with the Lord

5/20/2013

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PictureEddie and his wife, Julie
I wish to share my story of starting a business and keeping God in it when many people would never understand how that is possible. I own a video game store called The Basement Games & CD’s.

I know with all the killing and lack of morals video games can, and sometimes do, promote, there still can be some good to come from it. I will explain as I go.

My wife and I started this business with money we saved. Totally out of pocket, we were ready to put forth our plan to rent a space and start selling and trading video games and music CDs. With our first attempt, we encountered problems with the space we wanted.

I also needed to get the few thousand dollars I had in my current 401K to finish off what we needed to start the business. Initially, my wife was going to quit her job and run the place even though she made more money than I did at the time.

After further research, we learned that I would have to quit my job in order to cash in my 401K. Otherwise, I could only take a loan from it at 10 percent (or something like that). That meant we would either have to work another six months to a year before attempting this venture, or I would have to start it. The bigger issue was that we had that gut feeling that if we did not act soon, someone else would open a game store ahead of us, thus killing our dream.

I should preface this by highlighting the fact that the town in which we live in is too small for two game stores, so this was a very important decision in our lives and something I felt God was telling us to do.

We waited three more months and then I quit my job after we found a second location that suited us perfectly and fit our budget. This spot not only was a godsend for us, but also for the landlord, who desperately needed to lease the property. Funny how God works not just for us, but for others too, huh?

Once we opened our doors, we started to grow by 20 percent month after month while trying to market our business to the area. Then the devil, in grand fashion, stepped in where I never thought he would, when a GameStop moved in a mile and a half away from us, settling in the exact location we could not afford when we first started looking for locations for our business.

For those that do not know much about GameStop, they are the largest corporation for used video games in the world; 6600 stores worldwide and a multi-billion dollar company. They are huge and have merged with or bought almost every company large enough to compete against them. They are the beast of this industry; the equivalent of Wal-Mart to the local small grocery store.

Growth stopped for a few months. Our trials really started in January of 2012. We had to put any and all extra money into the store just to get by. However, in a town this size, we knew GameStop would not last.

I was hoping they would be gone one year after setting up in our town. June of 2012 was that one year point for them; but they decided to stay. They had been losing money month after month since they set up shop in our town, but apparently tried to get to their second year anniversary.

We were getting ready to close our store in October of 2012.  I prayed one morning with a scenario in my mind of how we could stay if this one thing could happen. I was thinking of asking my landlord for help for a month or two. Otherwise, we would have to close and be done with it.

About an hour after I opened the store that morning, my landlord came walking in (knowing we were in trouble) and wrote on a piece of paper an equivalent of a two-month payment breakdown good for up to a year to help us. It was exactly to the “T” what I was thinking when I was praying. NO ONE can tell me that it was a coincidence. THAT, folks, is God the Almighty letting us know we were going to out last our competitor and survive this trial.

The next big mystery is "Why?" Why would God want us to have a game store to benefit Him?

During my time in this store, I have been able to talk about politics and religion to most of my customers. The conversation never gets heated and always is well received. I can help share the messages of God to people that have drifted away and need to hear in order to reconnect. In so doing,I learn just as much from my patrons during these conversations.

The stories of other people’s experiences could fill a book! I have a good reputation thanks to the good people of this community. I have been blessed in more ways than I can even fathom. But when I do think about it, I know God has all of this and is not going to let my feet hit the ground shoeless in a land of broken glass.

He has carried me all of my life and nothing is going to stop him now. We will never be monetarily rich or even wealthy from the store, but we knew that when we opened it. We just wanted to make a living doing it the way we wanted to do it with God in our lives. We will survive this time and will be around for those that need a little fuel for their soul when they least expect it.





Eddie McDonnell is an ex-musician from the Dallas, TX area. He played professionally for almost 20 years in various heavy metal bands. Through mutual friends, Eddie met his wife, Julie, who is from Northern Idaho. They developed a friendship that transitioned into a long distance relationship with them flying back and forth to see each other for almost two years. When the music scene was about over in Dallas and a heavy weight  in Eddie's chest and God’s continual voice was echoing in his head, Eddie realized it was time to move to Northern Idaho to be with the woman God put in his life.

Eddie and Julie were married and planned to one day own their own business. After saving their money, and after listening to God, they opened their own video gaming store, The Basement Games & CDs.

Eddie states, "It is always interesting to see the results God gives us when we stop trying to do everything for ourselves and just let Him do it."
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A Chat with author Don Grove Jr.

2/25/2013

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An excerpt from You Said What, God? A Lifestyle of Listening: "Back in my car that day, I had slipped right into the standard sinner's solution when God speaks. I made a deal. If God would keep His hands off my family, I would go back to church the next Sunday. And here I was, three Sundays later, not honoring God but playing out the deal. No one's blood in my family had been shed but my own hands were drained of blood from gripping the pew."
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God speaks to everyone
You Said What, God? A Lifestyle of Listening is a labor of love for author Don Grove Jr. A born again Christian who has devoted his life to God and family, Don Grove Jr. shares his personal stories and struggles in his 35-year journey of learning how to listen to God.

We sat down with Don Grove Jr. and asked him to share some of the more intimate details of the process of writing You Said What, God? A Lifestyle of Listening.

Why did you write this book?
Some write because they have the skill set and then write for their own or others’ enjoyment.   Some do it for income or status or power.  I was chosen to live out normal, life changing experiences that, when God was allowed to intervene, made them supernatural.  Next, God trained me to write so I could record them for others' spiritual growth.

What does this book mean to you?
Most people die wanting to finish something.  If I die today, I feel as if my life is complete now because this book is complete.    

What do you want people to get out of this book?
I want people to understand there is a moment in their lives in which they will experience a contact with the Holy Spirit where He will pursue them in order to give them an opportunity to know God as a person, and not simply as a historical person about whom they have heard or read.  

What is the difference in hearing God and listening to God?
Hearing occurs when you are open and receptive. Listening is an active lifestyle in which effort is expended to obtain an expected result that God wants you to be understanding and then obedient.

Who will enjoy reading this book?
Christians who did not know they could or who have been struggling to hear God for themselves and thought it was just for others such as saints and the early disciples.

How does this or how can this book benefit people?
This is another witnessing tool for Christians. Those that are born again can commit to allowing Jesus to become their Lord and those that have made Him Lord and Savior will be encouraged to improve their listening and realize it is not that difficult to listen and really hear God.

With the completion of You Said What, God? A Lifestyle of Listening, Don Grove Jr. invites anyone with a desire to obtain a closer connection to God to read this book. In a world filled with noise – much of which is negative and hate-filled – You Said What God, A Lifestyle of Listening? is a refreshing commentary by a Christian man seeking to share his inspiring journey along the path of learning how to listen to God.


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